How to Choose a Mistress - By Robin

How to Choose the Right Phone Mistress for You

 

 

There are so many different styles of domination out there depending on the person.  There isn’t a name for each, it’s just their style.  However, those styles are grouped in two main groups: hardcore and sensual.

 

If you want to be yelled at, punished severely, and have toys to do these things with, you will probably want a hardcore phone Mistress.  This type of Mistress probably knows every type of CBT and BDSM toy out there and if you have them, will make you do a session with each one you own.  She’s a no-holds-bar Mistress who doesn’t care if you cry and whine and beg her to stop, your ass will be red and sore when she’s done.

 

She’s not going to take no for an answer and will not let you get away with anything.  Mistresses who are hardcore tend to do great with making their sissies do assignments. They have experience in either real-rime or lots of phone domination and therefore really have a handle on what their sissy needs.

 

I do find that most hardcore dommes have one style and that is being mean.  They can’t really tone it down or change it up persay (although some can switch between hardcore and sensual).  You’ll know right away if you have found a hardcore domme.  She won’t let you say much, she’ll have in her mind what she wants to do to you without you asking, and she’ll be really bitchy and domineering.

 

A sensual domme on the other hand listens to her submissive and asks questions about what they like.  They aren’t prone to yelling, although can when provoked, and their soft but dominant voice will sooth you into submission.

 

Sensual dommes may not be as aware of hardcore BDSM and CBT toys, but have a general understanding.  As a submissive, you can teach a sensual domme all about the toys you have and have fun while doing it.  In fact, one of my clients will go on cam for me and show me how he uses each of his toys (the ones I haven’t used often on the phone), it’s fun for both him and I.

 

Sensual dommes are usually great at tease and denial and guided masturbation.  Their voice and words keep you on the edge and under their control without having to yell or threaten you.  And sensual dommes, I find, will rarely raise their voice unless you aren’t listening.  They will give in to your whining after awhile, because they tend to feel more sorry for you that they are being too harsh or pushing too far.

 

While hardcore dommes use power and the strength of their voice to get what they want, sensual dommes use the soothing nature of their voice to get their way.

 

Both main types are fantastic depending on what you are looking for.  Try one and then the other so that you really get the right fit for you.  Remember though, if you don’t like the way one phone Mistress dominates, try another until you find the one that’s perfect for you.